This week was my unbirthday,
which I celebrate the event but not the actual age. Of course, this is when I reflect. What is the rule for fashion for women my age? What age is too old to wear what? After 40, I started having more fun with
clothes. Is this a mid-life crisis I am
having with my closet? Am I too old for
colored capri pants, prints, etc. Is
there a rule? Jennifer Aniston is my age
and she rocks a mini dress because she can.
Should she get a high five and “you go girl” for pulling it off or
should she stop and dress more mature? As
I was left pondering the meaning of age, life and fashion, I decided to throw
my rule book out and have some fun going shopping. I took the day off on my unbirthday and went
to the Bravern and Bellevue Square to shop. I also decided not to
worry about it, celebrate life and ate chocolate and drank wine at Wild Ginger. Here I
am celebrating with a delicious and naughty chocolate desert:
| J.Crew Nolita Denim Jacket J.Crew Blouson Dress in Polka Dot OPI Nail Polish in Pompeii Purple |
I did a lot of shopping, and when I say a lot, I mean a lot, even for me:
| Lots of goodies! |
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Neiman Marcus was having a gift with purchase. The gift bag is cute, and I like the
samples. I opted for the orange
bag. (I bet you guessed pink! I can’t believe I didn’t pick pink. I think I was trying to be bold and daring). I got a
bottle of Michael Kors perfume and La Mer eye cream (back to that aging
thing). I also had a makeover at Yves Saint Laurent and bought this glossy stain lip color in encre rose, perfect for summer and super long lasting (stays on for hours, seriously):
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| YSL Glossy Stain in Encre Rose |
I went to Tory Burch and Nordstrom and went crazy on shoe shopping. I'm more of a handbag girl (hence the name), but I've been on a shoe kick lately.
| Shoes! |
At Tory Burch
I got the Robinson Demi-Wedge Sandal. I love these and the blood orange color is beautiful for summer and they are comfortable.
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| Tory Burch Robinson Demi-Wedge Sandal |
I also got the Tory Burch Leather Amanda High Peep Toe Wedge, which are cushioned, comfortable and cute on.
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| Tory Burch Leather Amanda High Peep Toe Wedge |
I got the Tory Burch Miller 2 Logo Thong Sandals in Royal Tan. They are comfy and will go with a lot of things for summer. I'm still debating if I should keep these since I got so many others.
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| Tory Burch Miller 2 Thongs |
At Nordstrom the Half Yearly Sale,
I got a pair of Maria Sharapova by Cole Haan'Air Catalina' Sandal on sale for $99. These are so cute and comfortable. They have the concealed Nike Air Technology. They are sparkly and even met my 12 year old
daughter’s seal of approval.
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| Maria Sharapova by Cole Haan Air Catalina Sandal |
I went to J.Crew and took advantage of the sales. I got the Vintage cottoncap-sleeve tee in stripe with neon pink stripes (item 80405) $34.50, in store sale of $19.99. This is a basic tee shirt, true to size.
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| J.Crew Vintage cotton-cap sleeve tee |
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| J.Crew Candy Stripe Jute Clutch |
I got the Summerlight terry pullover ($59.50 item 82341, on sale in
store for $39.99) in café mint. It super
soft and comfy, fits true to size and is bright neon green which is fun for
summer. I love the neons. Makes me think of the 80's.
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| J.Crew Summerlight Terry Pullover |
I love the way it is styled in the June Style Guide:
I got the Villa Dress in green on sale for $49.99. I reviewed the stripe dress. I love this green shade. So bright and cheerful.
I got the Villa Dress in green on sale for $49.99. I reviewed the stripe dress. I love this green shade. So bright and cheerful.
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| J.Crew Villa Dress |
Here I am in my new things pulled together:
In addition to all of this fun stuff, I got some beautiful earrings from my husband. (I lost one of my diamond studs
the day of my mother’s funeral in December.
Since then, I’ve been wearing costume and pearls).
My husband said "After all of this, you won't need to shop for a couple of weeks, right?" Phew! I am exhausted after all of this shopping, but excited about my new things.











happy birthday tammy!
ReplyDeleteit looks like you had a lot of fun and you got all this special things.
love,love tory burch and her shoes(even though i dont own any)yet.
i also own the nolita denim jacket and it is so worth the money,it looks cute with the green vila dress!
thanks to you i ordered the keeper chambray shirt and love,love it!i will review it soon.
Ina,
DeleteThat Nolita Denim Jacket is such a great item works with so many things!
I can't wait to hear how you like the Chambray shirt.
Tammy
Hey Tam--I don't know how old you are but you wear your J. Crew sooo well--if I was near you I'd totally give you a HIGH FIVE!!!! You have super great style sense!!! Keep it up!
Delete:) Thank you yogagirl!
Deleteforgot to say,age is just a number!
ReplyDelete:)
DeleteHappy Unbirthday! Love all you goodies. Just a comment about dressing and getting older. All I wore when I was younger was black, white and khaki. Boring! The older I get (I'll be 55 in a couple of weeks) the more colorful, patterned, bright and fun my wardrobe gets. I stick with classic shapes (I buy 99% of my clothing from j. crew), but really experiment with color and pattern combos. I get compliments all the time and the Crew SA's always say I look like I just stepped out of the catalog! So I say, heck with age, wear what makes you happy and smile. That's what keeps us young!
ReplyDeleteStraycat, I love your attitude! Thanks!
DeleteStraycat, I'm with you! Coming up on 57 in a few weeks (ugh) and more comfy than ever in my skin and in my JC clothes! :-)
DeleteTarheelMom - I love it!
DeleteHappy birthday!! Nice haul - love all the shoes that you got. As I get older, I am experimenting more and more with colour and pattern. I figure life is too short to be afraid of trying something new.
ReplyDeleteYes, I feel like I experiment more with color and pattern now than I did in my 30's!
DeleteHappy Birthday! Love all your purchases but esp. the orange TB sandals. Regarding age, I think as long as something looks good on the bod, and you feel good in it, go for it! I think giving in to the 'rules' ages us faster anyway. 40's is not the age to feel frumpy. Heck, I'll be 41 this month and my libido is just kicking in! ;) woo hoo!
ReplyDeleteThank you! Happy birthday to you this month!
DeleteHappy Birthday, Tammy! You look great! I agree, throw caution out the window and have fun! Life's too short.
ReplyDeleteI love all those nice things you got, and my very favourites are those orange wedges and the Cole Haan sandals.
I was surprised to see the Summer Terry Pullover is cheaper in the Canadian store on sale (at $24.99).
Thanks, Rose! The sandals are so comfy. I love them. The price point differences are so weird. $24.99 sounds even better! :)
DeleteHappy unbirthday Tammy! I love how you treated yourself on your special un-occasion :D I say, wear whatever puts a smile on your face, whatever your age! I spent my teens, 20s and 30s worrying what other people think of me. My style hasn't changed all that much, but now I OWN it. I love your shoe haul, btw. I've been looking for a good pair of black peeptoe wedges for the office, gonna check out the TB's. You look great in your new outfit, enjoy your new pretties!!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Closet Crisis. Those black wedges are very comfortable. I wore them to work all day and walked around after and they are super comfortable.
DeleteI agree with you on owning style!
Happy Birthday! I like what you said about Jennifer Aniston rocking a minidress. :) I agree...
ReplyDeleteThe maria shaprova sandals are darling, love those, great buy, too!
The candy stripe clutch is so wonderful, works well with so many summer looks.
Thanks Dina! The clutch is fun, I love the colors.
DeleteYour new outfit with the green dress, denim jacket and little colored clutch is perfect!
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday!
Thank you, Tiffany!
Deletewhat a great shopping day!! Love all the TB shoes you picked up and that clutch, so fun!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Jessica!
Deleteoooh wow, great shopping loot! a very nice birthday indeed!
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday! Your outfit choices are georgeous!
ReplyDeletexoxo Van
http://cravingthechic.blogspot.de/
Thanks, Van!!!
ReplyDeleteLooks like your unbirthday shopping trip was very successful! So many great finds at J. Crew!
ReplyDeleteTasia
Happy belated birthday to you! I like how you styled the Villa dress--so very pretty!
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Thank you!!!
DeleteI like th eclutch.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday!